Chase down your passion like it’s the last bus of the night; Follow your passion, and success will follow you. ~Terri Guillemets
Stop and think for a moment about what drives you. What is your motivation? Why do you live? What do you live for? Who do you live for?
If you are a human being with emotions, you will undoubtedly come across one of these questions throughout the course of your life.
Now think about your hobbies, your weekend activities, and what you do for a living. Why do you do what you do? As they ask in the airport, is your destination for “Business or pleasure.”
What I’m getting at is, passion should the primary motivation for the things you do in your life. Because it’s my blog, and all I’ve been doing is talking about other people’s lives, I wanted to take a closer look at my life, and try to evaluate myself before it was too late.
My friend told me he was sick and tired of hearing me whine about how I compare myself to others, saying that all I do is try to measure up to who they are and what they have become. It comes as no surprise that I am starting to get sick of that as well. I thought it was time to try and do something. I used to be a positive person and used to see the positive in every situation, good or bad. I don’t know what happened, but I guess it’s because when I see the success of others, all I see is are the failures that I’ve done in my own life. I’ve tried to live my life proving others wrong, but I guess that can be a destructive path in it of itself. Why bother doing things that spites others? Why not do things for me? All I really want is personal achievement, gain, and ultimately, happiness.
Let’s see what I’ve involved myself in doing but after a while, lost interest in it, saw what others had to contribute in the field, and in turn, told myself that I could never amount to that:
- Photography
- Automotive
- Business
- Computers
Does it hurt to want to be better than other people? No. But it’s bad if all you ever do is WANT to be better than everyone else all the time. Setting up goals is one thing, but to try to beat out the competition on a daily basis just to feel superior eats away at a man’s soul, especially if they fail to attain that level. I’ve been telling a lot of people that I need to get on so and so’s level. When I fail to get on that level, I feel like all hope is lost and there is nowhere to go. But as they say “Nowhere to go now but up.” It’s true. When you’re at the bottom, all you have to do is look up and you’ll see the light.
What has made so many people in the world well-known and successful? Passion. The greatest example that I can provide is someone whose story is well-known (if you’re a basketball fan). He loved basketball as a kid, wanted to play for his high school basketball Varsity team, got cut as a sophomore, worked his ass off until he made it during his Junior and Senior year. Yeah maybe the high school had a strict policy about 10th graders joining the Varsity squad, but with Jordan’s mindset, it was like being cut. It’s like saying you were a QB the NFL, but was second-string. What motivated Jordan? To be better than the guy next to him, to stand out, and above all, his passion and love for the game. His story involves many doubters, but with his passion and ability to “prove others wrong” he destroyed the competition. What made Jordan the greatest basketball player of all time? Passion. He played for the game, not to be recognized. His achievements just allowed fame to come to him.
The days coming ahead will be rough, but that’s what happens when you get knocked down. Get back on your feet, rethink your strategy, and don’t let them scare you. If they scare you, you’ve already lost the fight.
Here’s a promise that I will have to make to myself — Keep moving and don’t listen to the negativity. Even if people do not believe in me, all I have to do is believe in myself, be successful in the things I do. If I don’t like something in my life, change it. Letting it be will just stay there, haunt me, and constantly remind me why I failed to change it. I don’t need to fail anymore. I need to be strong. Find passion in what I do. Be passionate, and keep the fire lit. Do it for yourself. Prove them wrong.
For all of you Catholics, if you need something to give up for Lent here are some ideas:
- Self-doubt
- Depression
- Carelessness
- Mistakes
- Failing
Make a path, keep the end-goal in mind, and start walking. It always begins with the first step.
Here are some shoes to help you get started: